Ok. I have been hearing alot about intenet dating. I think I am ready to try it but the prices wow....plus there are so many to choose from? Any suggestions? I want to meet a man!
Internet Dating?
They are all the same. But try these out:
1.Americansingles.com
2.True.com
3.mate1.com
4.perfectmatch.com
5.match.com
6.chemistry.com(though I haven't tried it, this site promises you to hook you up with someone in person. But the price is whoa!)
7.myspace.com(free)
Aria
*The illnovelist*
Reply:go to Craig's List...it is free and there are tons of guys in your local area...
Reply:I found my fiance on match.com!!!
Reply:I tried it but people cant be honest about who they are. Watch out for LIARS.
Reply:I tried eharmony for about 6-8 months. I talked to a few guys on there, but nothing. They were not my type at all....I didn't get matched up with or talk to anyone that I liked. I spent a lot of money for nothing....Only do it if you go into it with an open mind and don't expect the world.
Reply:i met some one on yahoo actually we have been goin out fur almost 7 mos now. and its free lol . just b careful who u get with cuz there r pervs on every website
Reply:Take it from someone whose been there; don't try it unless you're willing to accept the strains tied to it. Keeping an internet relationship up is hard work and it can be very stressful emotionally. You never really know what they're doing when they're offline. They could be stringing another girlfriend around while they're 'dating' you. Plus nowadays, you don't know if the person you're talking to is really who they say they are. I'd rather have a real-life relationship that another long-distance one.
Reply:You could use the Q and A here to find someone and then e-mail back and forth.
shoe uppers
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Internet dating?
I have a friend who just called me to tell me he slept with yet another (the 5th i might add) girls he met on the internet. Would you EVER sleep with someone like that? *I know i wouldn't!!
Internet dating?
i wudnt ,with HIV/AIDS on the lose your freind shud know he's risking his life as well as other innocent victims lives ,I HOPE HE WAS USING A CONDOM WITH ALL HIS PATRNERS
Reply:what is bad in that. U will always find individual differences.
Reply:That's a perfect way to get a STD. Anyway I'm saving sex for marriage, so I still wouldn't do that.
Reply:Well, I married her... so, yes, I did :-)
Reply:lol to answerman. marriage lol
Reply:With a man, you mean? No, sure wouldn't...
Reply:I prefer Chemistry to Biology . . . enough said.
Reply:Just a booty call? I used to but im not interested in that anymore. And on the internet huh... almost sounds like a prowler.
Reply:hi, i use internet dating, and you do get a lot of perverts on there, i met a wonderful guy on there, it just depends on the person and the dating service, mine is free, and i also met some wonderful ppl on there.
Internet dating?
i wudnt ,with HIV/AIDS on the lose your freind shud know he's risking his life as well as other innocent victims lives ,I HOPE HE WAS USING A CONDOM WITH ALL HIS PATRNERS
Reply:what is bad in that. U will always find individual differences.
Reply:That's a perfect way to get a STD. Anyway I'm saving sex for marriage, so I still wouldn't do that.
Reply:Well, I married her... so, yes, I did :-)
Reply:lol to answerman. marriage lol
Reply:With a man, you mean? No, sure wouldn't...
Reply:I prefer Chemistry to Biology . . . enough said.
Reply:Just a booty call? I used to but im not interested in that anymore. And on the internet huh... almost sounds like a prowler.
Reply:hi, i use internet dating, and you do get a lot of perverts on there, i met a wonderful guy on there, it just depends on the person and the dating service, mine is free, and i also met some wonderful ppl on there.
Internet dating?
is it socially ok to do the whole match.com stuff or is freaky? ive tried it in the past but the guys were nothing like they seemed online or on the phone. is finding someone on the internet made us too picky about our match.
Internet dating?
It's already hard to know a person when you speak to and interact with him/her directly and it's even harder to do it over the Internet or telephone. Finding someone over the Internet is definitely trickier and harder although the chance of meeting more people is definitely much higher. So it's like a double edged sword... it's good on one thing and not so good on the other.
Is it socially acceptable? Of course. We are in the modern era afterall. If you happen to be one of the lucky ones and get to marry the person you meet on the Internet, you can tell everyone that you meet this wonderful person over the Internet and no one is going to laugh at you.
My advice is keep looking in the Internet if you want, but don't overlook the people that are close to you. People often don't realize that the best thing that can happen to them is actually nearby. As far as the Internet dating goes, only consider someone who doesn't lie about him/herself. Lying is the worst thing to do when you want to start a relationship. Good luck!
Reply:Just becareful... And if it doesnt work again then you should try the old fashion way... meeting guys in town.
k.
Reply:To start off internet dating is risky. Even though emailing, chatting talking on the phone etc.. it's better to meet in person because you'll know who he/she really is... also it's dangerous and a risk... People are picky no matter it's online or in real life.. People are just born naturally to know they see what they like... I never tried match.com because you just see the picture.. never know if he or she is really him/her... I'm using stickam.com which is a webcam chat... i met a lot of people and got to know and made friends with but dating nope.. People who do online dating have to have an open mind on it and put your options open because honestly thinking u'll never know if he's just dating you or he's dating u and 10 other people at the same time!
Reply:There is nothing wrong with using dating sites. Just like meeting people off line you're going to have to meet many before you find one that is a good match. Dating is a numbers game - no matter where you meet them initially.
Reply:no. most women likes to play games. so some guys r playing alone with the game. alot of females post their pictures on the web site and the picture was a few years ago. they just can:t show what they look like right now. women can not tell the truth. this is why some guys you encounter r phony. BEWARE, match.com have their own employees make up phony members to lure new customers..try using site that does not charge you such as craiglist or myspace. you have nothing to lose. it work for me.
Reply:Don't do none of that honey.......just wait that guy will find you...don't go looking for the devil under a steal rug...it just might lift when you grab it.
Reply:no
Reply:no it's for desperate people. most if not all people there are ugly
Reply:No, don't do it. It hardly works and will often end badly.
Reply:im dating this guy i met on the internet and we have know each other for abt four months and its working out he lives 2 hours from here so we havent met yet but i dont hting its bad to inteernet date
Reply:yes
Reply:hmmmm,,,
I think internet dating can work,,off course internet does not let you know everything and real things about the other person, but at least it gives you some ideas about that person. And yes , I think finding someone on the ineternet makes us picky.
wish you all the best.
fake teeth
Internet dating?
It's already hard to know a person when you speak to and interact with him/her directly and it's even harder to do it over the Internet or telephone. Finding someone over the Internet is definitely trickier and harder although the chance of meeting more people is definitely much higher. So it's like a double edged sword... it's good on one thing and not so good on the other.
Is it socially acceptable? Of course. We are in the modern era afterall. If you happen to be one of the lucky ones and get to marry the person you meet on the Internet, you can tell everyone that you meet this wonderful person over the Internet and no one is going to laugh at you.
My advice is keep looking in the Internet if you want, but don't overlook the people that are close to you. People often don't realize that the best thing that can happen to them is actually nearby. As far as the Internet dating goes, only consider someone who doesn't lie about him/herself. Lying is the worst thing to do when you want to start a relationship. Good luck!
Reply:Just becareful... And if it doesnt work again then you should try the old fashion way... meeting guys in town.
k.
Reply:To start off internet dating is risky. Even though emailing, chatting talking on the phone etc.. it's better to meet in person because you'll know who he/she really is... also it's dangerous and a risk... People are picky no matter it's online or in real life.. People are just born naturally to know they see what they like... I never tried match.com because you just see the picture.. never know if he or she is really him/her... I'm using stickam.com which is a webcam chat... i met a lot of people and got to know and made friends with but dating nope.. People who do online dating have to have an open mind on it and put your options open because honestly thinking u'll never know if he's just dating you or he's dating u and 10 other people at the same time!
Reply:There is nothing wrong with using dating sites. Just like meeting people off line you're going to have to meet many before you find one that is a good match. Dating is a numbers game - no matter where you meet them initially.
Reply:no. most women likes to play games. so some guys r playing alone with the game. alot of females post their pictures on the web site and the picture was a few years ago. they just can:t show what they look like right now. women can not tell the truth. this is why some guys you encounter r phony. BEWARE, match.com have their own employees make up phony members to lure new customers..try using site that does not charge you such as craiglist or myspace. you have nothing to lose. it work for me.
Reply:Don't do none of that honey.......just wait that guy will find you...don't go looking for the devil under a steal rug...it just might lift when you grab it.
Reply:no
Reply:no it's for desperate people. most if not all people there are ugly
Reply:No, don't do it. It hardly works and will often end badly.
Reply:im dating this guy i met on the internet and we have know each other for abt four months and its working out he lives 2 hours from here so we havent met yet but i dont hting its bad to inteernet date
Reply:yes
Reply:hmmmm,,,
I think internet dating can work,,off course internet does not let you know everything and real things about the other person, but at least it gives you some ideas about that person. And yes , I think finding someone on the ineternet makes us picky.
wish you all the best.
fake teeth
Internet dating ...?
did you think it works? has anyone ever meet someone off the internet? details please... do you think you can have a long relationship
Internet dating ...?
Yeah. It depends on you and him. What your needs are, etc.
I've not met someone and then met in person, but it is possible.
Reply:It can work,I know a few people that are together or married that have met that way. There are liars out there that try deceive people but mostly I have found them OK,you just have to be careful.
Reply:I never met anyone off the net but I assume it could work out . I seen worse that worked out lol, most of the girls i wanted to meet wind up being cows and sent me fake pics so I don't get to involved with it
Reply:My name is Alan,
I was married for 27, years, and after working abroad on and off for 5 years I decided it was time I should meet someone and settle down again.
I joined a dating site for one month, I think what I learned was that there was some playing games, some insincere,some too far away, I had two dates, the first was quite nice but that all important chemistry wasn't there, the second was very nice looking but all she did was vent her anger about her ex husband, not a very considerate way to date obviously not ready! I will leave it a little while so all the old faces that seem to be on for ever and ever naturally disappear and some new faces appear, can only hope I will keep trying, as I couldn't bare to go to a night club.
Alan of Nottingham
Reply:it depends on a couple.
i met this guy on the net. (yahoo poker)
i'm european living in minnesota and he is american living in california.
we fell in love with each other and we chatted on messenger with webcam for hours every night.
he said this is his first online romance and we made plans to meet and everything. i was so excited to see him in person this christmas.
then 5 months later, he met someone in his city and dumped me immediately. he just put me on ignore on messenger and i haven't heard from him since.
i just found out that he got a gf cuz i know his page on myspace.
his comment to her is like.." oh baby i felt something special when i first saw you. i have never felt like this before."
that broke my heart cuz that's exactly what he told me on messenger.
well... my opinion on this is that if the couple is living far away from each other, it won't last long.
however if they live in the same state or at least within 2 hour drive, it would work out.
Reply:http://whonext.net/
Free Online Dating %26amp; Community
its just like friendster and myspace account..
register will allow you to create your very own profile page
a live demo : http://www.whonext.net/Love
Reply:Baby .. dont get your hopes too high...
Most of the ppl chatting are not serious %26amp; just killing time
Reply:some are success full some are not but I have a friend they just meet in an Internet and now there happily married and its really depend upon to a person if he/she are honest to each other it will work out.
Reply:I met my guy online.
I had talked to and met a lot of guys. I always met them a local, public, familiar places. I usually didn't go for a second date after the first one. Did this like a thousand times, meet 'em, drop'em, meet 'em, drop 'em.
But my guy kept talking online. Was never rude. Talked about his kids. After a year we met. It really didn't take so I just did what I always did and turned down a second date. We kept talking. He asked me out again a couple of months later and by then I'd had time to think and I knew I wanted to see him. By the end of that second date, I was hooked.
We dated for 3 years. We've been living together for over a year. We don't fight. We work a lot. We each have 3 kids. And he's the best lover I've ever had....
I knew very specifically what I was looking for online. My profile was honest. No, not everyone is honest online. But if you remember the main goal is to find the one guy, it's easier. I had limited time and energy for this. It made deciding who I spent time with easy. If a relationship made my home life harder, it wasn't worth it. I was single 8 years. I never lived with anyone. He was single 8 years, too. Never lived with anyone. We knew what our final goal was .... to just find the one person. Makes it easier to keep taking the steps toward your goal relationship.
Internet dating ...?
Yeah. It depends on you and him. What your needs are, etc.
I've not met someone and then met in person, but it is possible.
Reply:It can work,I know a few people that are together or married that have met that way. There are liars out there that try deceive people but mostly I have found them OK,you just have to be careful.
Reply:I never met anyone off the net but I assume it could work out . I seen worse that worked out lol, most of the girls i wanted to meet wind up being cows and sent me fake pics so I don't get to involved with it
Reply:My name is Alan,
I was married for 27, years, and after working abroad on and off for 5 years I decided it was time I should meet someone and settle down again.
I joined a dating site for one month, I think what I learned was that there was some playing games, some insincere,some too far away, I had two dates, the first was quite nice but that all important chemistry wasn't there, the second was very nice looking but all she did was vent her anger about her ex husband, not a very considerate way to date obviously not ready! I will leave it a little while so all the old faces that seem to be on for ever and ever naturally disappear and some new faces appear, can only hope I will keep trying, as I couldn't bare to go to a night club.
Alan of Nottingham
Reply:it depends on a couple.
i met this guy on the net. (yahoo poker)
i'm european living in minnesota and he is american living in california.
we fell in love with each other and we chatted on messenger with webcam for hours every night.
he said this is his first online romance and we made plans to meet and everything. i was so excited to see him in person this christmas.
then 5 months later, he met someone in his city and dumped me immediately. he just put me on ignore on messenger and i haven't heard from him since.
i just found out that he got a gf cuz i know his page on myspace.
his comment to her is like.." oh baby i felt something special when i first saw you. i have never felt like this before."
that broke my heart cuz that's exactly what he told me on messenger.
well... my opinion on this is that if the couple is living far away from each other, it won't last long.
however if they live in the same state or at least within 2 hour drive, it would work out.
Reply:http://whonext.net/
Free Online Dating %26amp; Community
its just like friendster and myspace account..
register will allow you to create your very own profile page
a live demo : http://www.whonext.net/Love
Reply:Baby .. dont get your hopes too high...
Most of the ppl chatting are not serious %26amp; just killing time
Reply:some are success full some are not but I have a friend they just meet in an Internet and now there happily married and its really depend upon to a person if he/she are honest to each other it will work out.
Reply:I met my guy online.
I had talked to and met a lot of guys. I always met them a local, public, familiar places. I usually didn't go for a second date after the first one. Did this like a thousand times, meet 'em, drop'em, meet 'em, drop 'em.
But my guy kept talking online. Was never rude. Talked about his kids. After a year we met. It really didn't take so I just did what I always did and turned down a second date. We kept talking. He asked me out again a couple of months later and by then I'd had time to think and I knew I wanted to see him. By the end of that second date, I was hooked.
We dated for 3 years. We've been living together for over a year. We don't fight. We work a lot. We each have 3 kids. And he's the best lover I've ever had....
I knew very specifically what I was looking for online. My profile was honest. No, not everyone is honest online. But if you remember the main goal is to find the one guy, it's easier. I had limited time and energy for this. It made deciding who I spent time with easy. If a relationship made my home life harder, it wasn't worth it. I was single 8 years. I never lived with anyone. He was single 8 years, too. Never lived with anyone. We knew what our final goal was .... to just find the one person. Makes it easier to keep taking the steps toward your goal relationship.
Internet dating?
why do most girls on online dating sites post old photos to fool guys and prefer to hide than to show themselves honestly to guys. they never look like their picture? what's up girls?
Internet dating?
Desperate has nothing to do with it I'm a, Single Parent i choose to raise my child than worry about me.
Meeting someone online just a better way of expressing yourself things you cannot say face to face. Its a good thing some have made it bad and others are jealous of i meant someone online this was the best thing besides my child in my life i could think off.
Reply:some girls are over weight or don't look like a beauty queen.So if they use someone else's picture the men will be interested in them,I think it's wrong ,people fall in love and don't like what they see.some say they don't care and some say no way and that's the end of that dating.
Reply:If you think about it they are desperate to have a mate. That's why you don't talk to strangers online.
Reply:Let's assume that the posting is like a first date. Everyone would like to look their best. If they have a picture that is more than 5yr old, they are probably hoping that once the relationship gets going, the focus will change, if the reality is not to different.
Personally, I would also be carefull if you see bikini pictures that are done in a studio. This is not like one taken by a friend at a beach. If she is pushing so hard, why.
Do not ever believe that this group are a bunch of losers. There are plenty of people who just can't seem to pull off the face to face encounter of a first contact. They are fine once they know you.
Reply:well i don't do the online dating site crap. but if i were to, i'd probably put up a photo as recent as possible. would hate to have an awkward moment ya know.
but they do that because they are insecure and think that if they show you what they really look like, you won't want to meet them at all. they think they'll win you over with their stellar personality, that you'll put aside that they've gained 300lbs or grew an extra head over the course of 5 years.
broads can be silly.
Reply:when u get to their age and want to lok for young dates, then u will do the same and realise why they do it
Internet dating?
Desperate has nothing to do with it I'm a, Single Parent i choose to raise my child than worry about me.
Meeting someone online just a better way of expressing yourself things you cannot say face to face. Its a good thing some have made it bad and others are jealous of i meant someone online this was the best thing besides my child in my life i could think off.
Reply:some girls are over weight or don't look like a beauty queen.So if they use someone else's picture the men will be interested in them,I think it's wrong ,people fall in love and don't like what they see.some say they don't care and some say no way and that's the end of that dating.
Reply:If you think about it they are desperate to have a mate. That's why you don't talk to strangers online.
Reply:Let's assume that the posting is like a first date. Everyone would like to look their best. If they have a picture that is more than 5yr old, they are probably hoping that once the relationship gets going, the focus will change, if the reality is not to different.
Personally, I would also be carefull if you see bikini pictures that are done in a studio. This is not like one taken by a friend at a beach. If she is pushing so hard, why.
Do not ever believe that this group are a bunch of losers. There are plenty of people who just can't seem to pull off the face to face encounter of a first contact. They are fine once they know you.
Reply:well i don't do the online dating site crap. but if i were to, i'd probably put up a photo as recent as possible. would hate to have an awkward moment ya know.
but they do that because they are insecure and think that if they show you what they really look like, you won't want to meet them at all. they think they'll win you over with their stellar personality, that you'll put aside that they've gained 300lbs or grew an extra head over the course of 5 years.
broads can be silly.
Reply:when u get to their age and want to lok for young dates, then u will do the same and realise why they do it
Internet dating?
do u think its a good idea that ppl shoud meet on the internet , i av just fell head over hills with this guy only been chatting for one hour and his asked me to vist him he lives in india, my freinds reacon am being stupid, but i know how i feel and i know he will do good by me, iv never met any one b4 ,but he told me that he doesn eat fish, am really concerned cos i av a bad odor to me , do u think quick wipes will help or do u think its just something to ignore
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Reply:actually you should meet only if you trust him enough ?
I'm sorry for every one doesn't agree with me but I believe that love doesn't have constraints.
but be careful honey , cos when you first meet
you should take care of some issues
usually in situations people miss chemistry of love when they first meet , give yourselves enough time
I hope I helped you
Reply:LOL... I'll answer the first part first. Internet dating is a new age thing and for some it does work but be careful... you got a lot of scammers out there looking for a quick buck and I'm taking it that your not from India, so don't go there. Make him come to you if you guys feel that way about each other. Second, the part about fish. perhaps you have a connection with him "eating" something else say in a sexual manner and connecting that with him not eating fish. Well , just take a bath dear before the "act". The vagina has its own odor and not much you can do about that.
Reply:wtf
Reply:Ppl always meet on the net ya plank lol I av known ppl who get married from meetin on the net but FFS woman u known this guy 4 an hour r u mad or just plain weird? He may chop u up if u go c this guy cos he sounds just as wierd as u do 4 askin u 2 meet him after that lengh of time!
WTF has fish got 2 do wiv this? Are u sayin ur odour is fishy? lmao Never mind quick wipes how bout gettin in the bath and actually washin yaself avin a wash is somethin ya can't ignore now is it?
Reply:i done Internet dating, i met my boyfriend on line, and after a month or two of talking we met in real life and been together since, its been about 2 years now and were still madly in love, so i def think Internet dating its good, but just be careful , if i were you i would NOT go all the way to India, if anything hes the MAN in the relationship, so HE should come to visit you. But if not then i would not go to India, they way i stuck to people in my state. i don't do long distance relationships.... and ID about you but it wont work, because if you do decide to go visit him, and you guys fall in love whats gonna happen? one of you has to move.... so it would be to complicated, so like i said Internet dating is awesome as long as it would be local
Reply:Yor cuestion make no cents.
You go from internet dating, to visiting India, to eating fish, to bad odors...
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Reply:actually you should meet only if you trust him enough ?
I'm sorry for every one doesn't agree with me but I believe that love doesn't have constraints.
but be careful honey , cos when you first meet
you should take care of some issues
usually in situations people miss chemistry of love when they first meet , give yourselves enough time
I hope I helped you
Reply:LOL... I'll answer the first part first. Internet dating is a new age thing and for some it does work but be careful... you got a lot of scammers out there looking for a quick buck and I'm taking it that your not from India, so don't go there. Make him come to you if you guys feel that way about each other. Second, the part about fish. perhaps you have a connection with him "eating" something else say in a sexual manner and connecting that with him not eating fish. Well , just take a bath dear before the "act". The vagina has its own odor and not much you can do about that.
Reply:wtf
Reply:Ppl always meet on the net ya plank lol I av known ppl who get married from meetin on the net but FFS woman u known this guy 4 an hour r u mad or just plain weird? He may chop u up if u go c this guy cos he sounds just as wierd as u do 4 askin u 2 meet him after that lengh of time!
WTF has fish got 2 do wiv this? Are u sayin ur odour is fishy? lmao Never mind quick wipes how bout gettin in the bath and actually washin yaself avin a wash is somethin ya can't ignore now is it?
Reply:i done Internet dating, i met my boyfriend on line, and after a month or two of talking we met in real life and been together since, its been about 2 years now and were still madly in love, so i def think Internet dating its good, but just be careful , if i were you i would NOT go all the way to India, if anything hes the MAN in the relationship, so HE should come to visit you. But if not then i would not go to India, they way i stuck to people in my state. i don't do long distance relationships.... and ID about you but it wont work, because if you do decide to go visit him, and you guys fall in love whats gonna happen? one of you has to move.... so it would be to complicated, so like i said Internet dating is awesome as long as it would be local
Reply:Yor cuestion make no cents.
You go from internet dating, to visiting India, to eating fish, to bad odors...
Internet Dating?
My best friend is 16 and thinks she is in love with a 15 year old guy that has hurt her numerous times when they were "dating", they never met and she was never sure if he was real or just made up by people. me and the rest of my friends have tried talking to her but shes gets defensive and angry when we do, how could we get her to see we are just looking out for her.
Internet Dating?
I'm sure a part of her is embarrassed that's why she gets to angry when you try and bring it up. See, the brain doesn't know the difference from actually doing something and just thinking about something. So in her mind and emotions they were boyfriend and girlfriend and she got all caught up in all that.
Maybe you need to pull her aside and talk to her. Just the two of you, and I'm hoping you can keep the conversation private and not tell anyone about it. Just tell her what I told you. About the brain and stuff. And that if she feels stupid or embarrassed just let it go because in awhile people will forget if she lets them.
If people do continue making crappy comments rehearse with her things she can say back to them. And if you are around and someone starts teasing her, don't be afraid to stick up for her and ask them to leave her alone.
She just needs to get over the fact she did it and move on. She can say jokingly to people "yeah about that, how retarded was I at that moment. boy I'll never do that again" stuff like that. Just keep her answers honest but brief.
Then after a few weeks, no more then a month it shouldn't be discussed anymore and should be considered so yesterday. Tell her she'll live, and she'll also be smarter now.
Good Luck
lb
Reply:write her a letter says something along the lines of 'the guy you have been "dating" may be real, and may be not. the fact remains that he has hurt you. love is something that cant develop over the internet, or with someone you have never met, the vibes you get from that person when you're with them, are a part of the feelings for them as much as enjoying conversation with them, and physical attraction to them. you have many friends who are here to support you, whether you choose to ignore them or not, at least hear what they have to say. good friends will support you and won't say "i told you so", even if they did. we will be here to support you regardless of your decision. *say what else you feel needs to be said*
by doing this she can take time to take in what you have said. she can make her decision, and then you should support her in that decision, whether you think its the right choice or not. if she ends up really hurt, then be a shoulder to cry on. dont desert her. people will often push their friends away and then get hurt. at that point she will need her friends more than ever. be ready for that to happen, but let her do what she wants.
good luck
Reply:it might be the right time to kick em to the curb, i think.
sensitive teeth
Internet Dating?
I'm sure a part of her is embarrassed that's why she gets to angry when you try and bring it up. See, the brain doesn't know the difference from actually doing something and just thinking about something. So in her mind and emotions they were boyfriend and girlfriend and she got all caught up in all that.
Maybe you need to pull her aside and talk to her. Just the two of you, and I'm hoping you can keep the conversation private and not tell anyone about it. Just tell her what I told you. About the brain and stuff. And that if she feels stupid or embarrassed just let it go because in awhile people will forget if she lets them.
If people do continue making crappy comments rehearse with her things she can say back to them. And if you are around and someone starts teasing her, don't be afraid to stick up for her and ask them to leave her alone.
She just needs to get over the fact she did it and move on. She can say jokingly to people "yeah about that, how retarded was I at that moment. boy I'll never do that again" stuff like that. Just keep her answers honest but brief.
Then after a few weeks, no more then a month it shouldn't be discussed anymore and should be considered so yesterday. Tell her she'll live, and she'll also be smarter now.
Good Luck
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Reply:write her a letter says something along the lines of 'the guy you have been "dating" may be real, and may be not. the fact remains that he has hurt you. love is something that cant develop over the internet, or with someone you have never met, the vibes you get from that person when you're with them, are a part of the feelings for them as much as enjoying conversation with them, and physical attraction to them. you have many friends who are here to support you, whether you choose to ignore them or not, at least hear what they have to say. good friends will support you and won't say "i told you so", even if they did. we will be here to support you regardless of your decision. *say what else you feel needs to be said*
by doing this she can take time to take in what you have said. she can make her decision, and then you should support her in that decision, whether you think its the right choice or not. if she ends up really hurt, then be a shoulder to cry on. dont desert her. people will often push their friends away and then get hurt. at that point she will need her friends more than ever. be ready for that to happen, but let her do what she wants.
good luck
Reply:it might be the right time to kick em to the curb, i think.
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