Monday, May 4, 2009

Internet dating??

has anyone of you ever dated a guy/girl from the internet and actually met with each other and now you're in love with her/him???

Internet dating??
I met my current partner who i am now engaged to on line. My previous boyfriend i also met on line - they both lived nearby so had to be honest as i could easily check them out. I find that lots of the guys you meet that are unattached are lonely but there are also plenty of married men looking for a bit on the side. I found guys that had similar interests to me and met them in a public place for a drink - sometimes a meal - sometimes we connected, sometimes we didnt in person. Talked to one guy for hours on end - he rang me and ran up a $400 phone bill that month but when we met the chemistry wasnt there.





Well meaning friends introduced me to guys who turned out to be more disturbed and dangerous then anyone i met on line. Going out to the pub and socialising with strangers whilst drinking alcohol can be a dangerous environment in itself but with the internet you are in control of the situation as to whether you want to meet them and take things to the next level.





I am in my late forties and found after my marriage ended that if i dated local guys and friends of friends that things were said that were often untrue and had the potential to ruin my reputation. I tended to see guys that lived about an hour away and in the country that was about 100 kilometres so we never had any preconceived ideas about each other but i found that there was always someone local that had met them or knew of them if I wanted to check them out if I was unsure or apprehensive.





You can met the right person anywhere and when you least expect it - in the supermarket, through friends or work. or sport. One of my friends married the ambulance guy that picked her up off the road when she had a car accident. You can even meet Mr. Right on the internet.
Reply:if u r talkin bt urself...den leave thinkin bt dat guy!!!!!!dere r many psycos on internet...btter stay away frm dem!!!!!11
Reply:I have never done that before, but I don't knock anyone who has. I do not advocate developing a relationship online though. Meeting is one thing, but bonding MUST take place in person.
Reply:Yes! Ive met my soulmate online! And I have met my closest friend in the world online too!





Internet relationships rock because you usually know if its your personality or the body he loves








Edit: By the way, yes I have met them both in person
Reply:I started speaking to someone in a chatroom a few years ago, we met in person a few months later and then were in a relationship and living together for 2 years! Don't see anything wrong with it, just be safe - meet in public place, take a friend if you can or at least let people know where you are.
Reply:No I haven't dated online but I have played a game which was rather naughty.


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