Internet dating dilemma?

Internet dating problem.


Man is nice enough and you have had one good phone conversation.


Man lives 2000 miles away and can't/won't move due to job.


You don't particularly want to move and leave your house, family, life.


He isn't religious at all and thinks praying is a waste of time.


You are fairly religious and pray often, read the Bible, etc. Religion is important to you.


His idea is to meet, see if it clicks and if so, have you move to his state and get married.


He's nice but the distance and the religion differences make you feel very already disappointed and unhappy. He said he will not at all go to church or embrace religion in any way.


Cut it off now or continue to get to know him?

Internet dating dilemma?
If you are that unhappy now, what's it going to be like when you meet?? If he said he wasn't going to Church at all or embrace it and that is what you like, then why try? He seems like he isn't going to change and you can only help someone change when they are willing to. Then you don't want to move leave your life, family etc, and again it sounds like he isn't willing to move/change his life up to be with you, Sorry not to hurt you or burst your bubble!....Move on Sweetie, find a good man who has more in common and who likes going to Church and more of the things you like, Also who lives closer so if you do hit it off neither one will have to make a sacrfice and leave, family friends, etc! :))








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Yes, Sweetie, definitely follow your gut feeling. Most of the time it is never wrong. I am not going to kid with you if you love him and care it will be hard at first but remember life DOES go on, and time heals everything. Also if you are not happy and staying with him for other reasons, You could indeed miss out on a great person, Let go and see what happens, or take a break and see if he changes. Remember: "If you love someone let them go, if they come back to you, they were always yours, if they don't then they never were". At first (When and if you do break it off) go to Church Functions, visit Family, catch up on something you were meaning to, just keep your mind off it. Time heals all and you will find you a great man who will respect you and love you for you and what you have to offer! Keep your head high! By the way, Yes he may be a nice person indeed, you just didn't hit it off, Just because you didn't hit it off with him don't mean his is a horrible person it happens it's life, You could still be friends and stay in touch with one another, Sometimes we think we have more in common with someone when chatting/typing but when you actually speak to them it reveals and whole other side and you see that maybe it isn't going to work and that's okay don't feel bad, Not everyone you meet will be "Mr. Right" just keep moving on until you find him. "Don't settle for the person you can live with, Settle for the one you can't live without" I hope this helps you and sorry it is so long! :))





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-- Best wishes to you!! *hugs*
Reply:Don't allow religious beleifs to stop it from progressing. You can still pray and attend services without him.