Monday, November 16, 2009

Internet dating?

I went on spring break this year to California and one night I randomly meet this one guy. We talked for about an hour and learned that we only like about an hour away from each other. We exchange numbers but that was about it. We didn’t talk all week until two nights before I left. He called and we were going to hang out but things didn’t go as planned to we never did. The next night he called but we decided that we have a long drive home so we were going to leave at night. Needless to say that was about it. We texted for a little while but that was it. My friend then found him on myspace ( hehe) She sent him a message and he then got my AIM. The first time we talked we talked for about 5 hours. Ever since then we talk almost every night for about 3 hours. I am not really sure what to do about it. He is 3 years older than me which I don’t think is a big deal however he has had a lot of relationship and I haven’t ever had one. He seems like a really nice guy. I am going to see him in a couple of weeks (I am taking a friend with me) I am not sure if I should pursue him or let him make the move. He has never came out and said that he was interested in me or anything like that. What should I do?

Internet dating?
Use patience and caution - the chemistry you have with writing back and forth might not be there when you are both face to face together. He might also be trying to be patient and waiting to see how well you both get along when you are finally together.
Reply:k. if hes still emailing u and showing intrest, why not meet him(safely with ur freind).and c where it will go? after this let him make contact with u and u will know where u stand
Reply:god I miss being your age.....
Reply:Go for it


you never know if hes "the one"


Plus how will you know if you NEVER try?!
Reply:I don't think he's that into you. Stop chasing after him. If he were interested, he'd make a move. Find a boy closer to your area or in your school.
Reply:no net meeting is good
Reply:Wait it out and see go for the visit with a friend of course and see where it leads
Reply:I don't think you should be pursuing him. If a guy is really interested in a girl, he will make the effort to date her. It's fun to chat online and on the phone, but that's not the same as a real life relationship. He may be a nice guy, but I think you should wait for him to make the next move (i.e., to see you and date you). If he isn't that interested in you, you don't want to end up wasting your time on him..
Reply:it depends on the age, three yrs can be a big deal trust me been there myself. i say leave this guy alone. keep him as afriend and when you get about 18 or so see if you still like him bet you won't. but if you do, then you really know him well and friends make the best boyfriends some times.


remember just friends for now.
Reply:well, see what happens give him a chance, give yourself a chance, youll never know unless you try. he seems nice go on girl!! GO GET YOUR MAN! :)


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