Monday, November 16, 2009

Internet dating?

well i really like this guy max and he lives in new york and i live in california.........we met on a online game and i really like and i've seem him on myspace but we r soooo far away wat should i do?

Internet dating?
wake up.....or one of you ....gonna have to move to the other's


state..for this relationship to work!!!...other wise move on....


or if for passtime, and entertainment purposes..is ok..to kee


relationship...but if one does not move to other's state...


it will only stay/ remain .."internet friendship".
Reply:DO NOT TRY TO MEET HIM!!!!! DO NOT USE INTERNET DATING BAD THINGS WILL HAPPEN!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:For me, there's nothing really bad would happen if you really know the guy so well. I've a boyfriend now who i just met thru friendster. We talk a lot online and on phone, often see each other thru webcam. I met him when im about to graduate from college and now I've been working with a good company for two years and we're still together. He's in singapore and I'm here in Phils. It is hard but our relationship still works because of a constant communication, trust, faith, respect and love with each other. I was even first introduce to his family thru online. He always visit me here every three/two months and I often go see him and his family in Singapore too. I'm so happy that now I have found my better half. Here are some of the questions you should ask yourself before meeting the guy the first time.


1. Are you talking to him often?


2. How long have you known the guy?


3. Did he ever introduce you to his family or friends online? Ask what other people think of him and its best if you know his family coz by that you would know if he has a good background.


4. And if are still unsure of him but really wants to meet him, make sure that you'll meet him in a place where you are very familiar with or better yet ask someone to come with you.
Reply:Well just to tell you from my experiences, it may or may not work. I have met guys from online and then there have been guys that I was crazy about and things just fizzled out. Guys loose interest very quickly also, so you had better make sure that he is serious about you and you are about him. I suppose it would help your question if you said how old you are. If your like 14 then, your chances of meeting him are rare; because of parents... school... etc.





But one of my closest friends is engaged to a guy she met online. He lives in Georgia and she lives in Pennsylvania. His parents flew him up to see her over Christmas for the first time and hes been back 3 times since. They webcam and talk on the phone all the time. So it is definatly possible, but its reallly hard to work it out. If you want to be his girl then I would go for it. Talk to him on the phone, make plans to meet (it would help if either of you had a job or very generous parents) Tell him how you feel and that you have an interesst in meeting him. Good luck


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