Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Does internet dating work?

approximately about an yr ago i meet someone on the internet dating. we got along quite wel i thought and i fell for him. along the line we disagreed and now they have gone offline and their email fails replys user doesnt have a yahoo. ac. advise how to come out of this heartache and move on. sometimes the email goes through other times it doesnt.


why do pple out there joke with other pple's feelings, does it mean they have blocked their addresses or what might be happening. does it mean they never had any feelings in the relationship.


i have decided to move on but he is always in mind more than before and keep thinking about him all the time and it is driving nuts.


how do i get this feeling off ???????

Does internet dating work?
This happened to me once. He could have blocked you. Or just doesn't care to respond. I think it best you move on. It'll take time but in a few months you'll feel allot better than you do today. Depending on how much you came to care for him. That's how long it'll take. It took me a whole year to stop caring. After that another one just hating him. A few years have past and now I couldn't care less.
Reply:weirdo
Reply:feelings about past relationships gone awry will only fade with time. i still think about one relationship i had alot and i let it affect my decisions and actions more than i should and it happened over a year ago





but i think my mother met my stepfather on the internet. and they have a wonderful relationship. so i guess internet dating works sometimes
Reply:move-on.. spend time to your friends...any suitors?? choose one of the best...goodluck ^_^
Reply:hell NO
Reply:YOU WAITED WAY TOO LONG.





A man has better things to do than chat online for a YEAR.





Or even a WEEK.





ITS NOT REAL.





The technology does not exist to REPLACE REAL HUMAN CONTACT. DONT USE TECHNOLOGY THAT WAS DESIGNED TO UNITE US . . . TO KEEP AS FAR AWAY AS POSSIBLE.





That defeats the purpose and gets you NOWHERE.





As you well know.





:)
Reply:Most likely he never had feelings for you,,, Was probably just feeding you a line,,, There are men on internet who just want to see how many women they can seduce and get to fall in love with them, once they have them they soon become bored and move on too their next conquest,, New %26amp; Fresh is what its all about to these men ,, well known as players,,, They will tell you whatever you want to hear,, and get you under their spell,,,,Be cautious ,, if they seem too perfect too charming, loving and romantic,,, they may have had lots of practice at it before you,,,,Yes,,, sounds like he is blocking you from his email,,, and the few times it has gone thru sounds like he unblocked you temporarily just to mess with your head again,,,,Definately move on,,,, is only way you will ever get over him,,, Read a good book, go out with friends,, find new interesting hobbies,, You deserve better,,, Its tough,, but time does heal all wounds,,, Goodluck
Reply:No way no how, never date over the internet it's bad.
Reply:Find someone else to replace that feeling that should work.


Or try your best to contact him and find out why he is leaving you that will make you feel at ease.





Its best not to do internet dating because as you have expericed people can block you etc whenever they want





Also if someones computer breaks you may perceieve that as they are ignoring you or something





I know its easier to talk to ppl on the net and if you are shy i still suggest you give it another go


but if you feel you can, its best to meet ppl in the flesh





a lot of ppl are on those net sites just to get sex and a lot of ppl are alredy married but due to the privacy of the net find it easy to cheat on their spouses. They may tell you tehy are single but quite often they are not especailly if they are over 30 or something. So, when theie spouse finds out sometimes they gota end it so u gota take those ppl into consideration aswell





ohh and ofcourse rapists etc.


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